I received the magazine “Real Simple – How To Break Your Bad Habits”, and started flipping through it last night. I came across this article -

“Sentimental Clutter – It’s hard enough to purge junk, let alone boxes loaded with memories. Here, seven steps to understanding what – and how – to let go.”
After my parents died – I lost them both 4 months apart – it seemed like I brought box after box of stuff home. I have kept some things I know I should part with … it’s just hard. For instance, my Mom’s purse and wallet. I hold onto it because it’s her. I miss her. I have my Dad’s swizzle stick collection … do I need it? No. But, it was his. I miss him. I have things like his old watch, key holder, things from his wallet. I have one of his old sweatshirts and one of my Mom’s jackets .. because they always wore them. I miss them.
This article has given me a gift. A suggestion of what you can do with sentimental clutter. Take pictures of the things I should really get rid of and make a book of memories – like on Shutterfly, or a site Real Simple recommended – Blurb.com A book of memories will take up a lot less space and I can actually flip through it and remember them ….
After they died I started writing down memories in a journal. My Mom used to warm the dinner plates. My Dad loved McDonalds Milk Shakes and would take the lid off and lick the underside
I have many, many memories and will add them to the pictures.
I have every card sent for my parents memorial and cards sent to Mom after my Dad died and she was ill. Yikes. I really don’t want to keep them, but it’s too hard to throw them out. I can scan those and keep them that way … then I won’t feel so bad. I must be like my Mom, because she kept cards sent to her after my Grandma passed away. How about I scan those too and throw them away… recycle them!
Some old treasures I will keep, like my Grandfather’s navy wallet. But, I think I will take pictures of it, and all the contents, and make a book of those types of things too … like my Dad’s teddy bear, my Mom’s bride doll. I mean, right now they are all packed away in boxes and it would be nice to pick up a memory book and “see” them.
Thank you Real Simple for this great article! I will now be able to get rid of some Sentimental Clutter.
A link to Real Simple – http://www.realsimple.com/
To Shutterfly – http://www.shutterfly.com/
Blurb – http://www.blurb.com/